Helping Your Child’s Communication Grow: Why You Matter Most
As a private speech-language pathologist in Waterloo, Ontario, one of the first things I share with families is this: you are the most important part of your child’s speech therapy team.
The biggest progress happens not just during our therapy sessions, but in the small, everyday moments you share at home or out in the community. That’s why I created this short video to explain why your role in speech therapy matters so much—and how you can support your child in ways that feel natural, not stressful.
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Why Parents, Guardians, and Caregivers Make the Biggest Difference
Research shows that children learn and keep new communication skills best when they practice them in familiar, supportive environments. When parents, guardians, and caregivers are actively involved:
- Skills are reinforced throughout the week.
- Strategies become part of daily routines.
- Progress carries over into real-life situations more quickly.
This isn’t about adding hours of “homework” to your week—it’s about making the most of moments you’re already sharing.
Everyday Moments That Boost Speech and Language
👶 Infants & Toddlers – Focus on Connection
- Narrate what you’re doing together: Talk about your actions, such as, “I’m washing your hands” or “The bubbles are floating up”.
- Pause and wait for a response: Give your child time to respond with sounds, gestures, or words.
- Follow their interests: If they point to a truck, talk about the truck (e.g., “The truck is loud”, “I see the shiny truck”, etc.).
- Join their play: Get down on their level and make it fun!
- 💡 Tip: Repetition helps young children make connections—don’t be afraid to say things over and over in the same routine.
🧒 Preschool & Early School Age – Build Through Play
- Ask open-ended questions: Instead of questions that require a “yes” or “no” answer, try asking things like “What do you think will happen next?”. To make the conversation feel natural and not like a test, be sure to balance your questions with plenty of comments.
- Expand on what they say: If your child says “car fast”, you can respond with, “Yes, the car is fast!” A gentle expansion like this helps build their language skills without pressuring them to repeat the phrase.
- Talk about stories: Make predictions about what will happen in a book and connect the story to your child’s real-life experiences.
- đź’ˇ Tip: Routine times like setting the table or bath time are perfect for conversation.
🧑 Older Kids & Teens – Deepen the Conversation
- Invite opinions: Talk about their thoughts on shows, news, or school events.
- Respect their preferred ways to communicate: Some kids express themselves best through writing, art, or augmentative and alternative communication (AAC). That’s okay.
- Model clarification: If you didn’t understand something they said, model how to ask for clarification, such as, “I didn’t understand that. Could you try telling me in another way?”
- đź’ˇ Tip: Teens often respond best to calm, collaborative conversations, not correction.
We’re in This Together
As your child’s speech-language pathologist, my job is to provide strategies, tools, and encouragement. Your job is to keep being the caring, engaged parent you already are—and to weave these strategies into your real life.
📍 Private Speech Therapy in Waterloo, Ontario
At Communicating Together Therapy & Wellness Associates, we offer private speech and language therapy for children and teens in a warm, inclusive setting.
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Whether you’re looking for guidance, reassurance, or therapy support, we’re here when you’re ready. Contact us to start the conversation.
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📝 A Note to Parents & Guardians
Thank you for all you do to support your child. You’re not alone on this journey.
đź‘‹ Take care,
Rhonda MacKinnon, M.Sc., S-LP(C), Reg. CASLPO – Speech-Language Pathologist